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Of Dogs and Men

9/2/2013

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Ladies and gentleman, readers of all ages, I have a confession to make: some days I like dogs a lot better than I like people.  Today is one of those days.

The picture to the left is a dog we had years ago.  Gorgeous, wasn't she?  She was a sweetheart and we all still miss her. 

We have two dogs now, smaller ones.  Both are half Shih Tzu, but the other halves are different. One of them has social anxiety disorder, caused in part by the myriad of therapists we have had in and out of the house, working with the two of our children who are officially autistic. He needs retraining that will take months, and because he bit someone--a stranger to him, Milo's always gentle with his family--he needs to be confined whenever we have company, until his retraining is finished and he can be trusted, and even then we'll still watch him very carefully. 

Unfortunately, Milo doesn't like being confined.  He has a secure yard within our back yard, and he doesn't like being in there when there is fun going on in the bigger yard.  And so he barks.  Milo's never been the quietest dog on earth.  He has sensitive hearing and will sometimes bark for what appears to be no reason.  Our usual joke is that he's barking at a squirrel in the next county.  He'll bark at vehicles, people, stray sounds.  Some of that is normal and some is due to the anxieties of his new situation.  It will lessen in time as he gets used to the changes we've had to make.

Now, we're responsible dog owners.  We don't let our dogs roam the neighborhood, we keep them well groomed and up to date with all veterinary visits and vaccines, and we try to limit Milo's barking as best we can.   We don't want to inconvenience anyone else. It's harder in the summertime when the kids are in and out all the time and the dogs follow suit.  Milo barks more when he's outside.  But we've never had a complaint from anyone in the village...until today.

I was out in the big yard pulling my daughter and our neighbor's daughter in a wagon.  Milo and our other dog were in their smaller yard and Milo wanted to come play, but we're not ready to trust him with other people's children yet.  An older gentleman in a shiny black SUV from two streets over drove up on the road behind our yard and proceeded to shout at me (without leaving his vehicle) about my dog who barks "all day long" (not true) and he's sick of it and if we don't take care of it he'll have the Sheriff at our door.  Then he drove off and I watched him go straight back to his garage.  He made a special trip for this.  With what he drives that probably cost him a full tank of gas, so he must mean business.

Being me, I called the Sheriff's department and asked about the penalties for barking dogs.  Turns out that in our county, there are no noise ordinances.  Granted we don't want trouble with neighbors, but legally there is nothing the Sheriff's department can do except to maybe suggest a bark collar, which we will not even consider without consulting our veterinarian. This being the year of rotten timing and vexing occurrences, the vet's clinic is closed for Labor Day.

This little village isn't a bad place to live, provided one stays out of politics.  But between last year's visit from Human Services (unfounded report, most likely made by the guy who was yelling at my kids last summer about the way they were dressed), the river, the railroad (much more traffic since the sand mines went in), the state highway, and this little wrinkle, I'd love to move.  My husband and I are country people and would prefer more space around us.  That will have to wait though.  And there is no chance of us giving away a dog that our 9 year old autistic son calls his "best friend."  We'll find a way to deal with this as responsible neighbors and pet owners.

I'd just like to say, for those of you who have issues with a neighbor's barking dog, please do not approach the situation the way this man did.  Dog owners are people too.  Try going to their door and introducing yourself.  Mention that you've noticed their dog is barking a lot and wondered if anything was wrong or there was something you could do to help (there probably isn't but it's a nice gesture).  You may find out that the dog is undergoing retraining and that the barking will subside in time.  Or you may find that the owner is irresponsible and the dog is barking for help, but at least you will have mentioned the problem without threatening anyone or shouting in front of children.  A little common courtesy can go a long way. 

This has been a difficult summer.  We're still waiting to hear if my sister has more cancer than what was removed during her surgery.  We've severed ties with the therapy company that was working with our boys and are researching other options.  The dog bite incident.  The irate neighbor incident.  And all of this has occurred within the last five weeks.  I'm looking forward to fall.

Oh well, school starts tomorrow and that will calm things down for everyone in the house.  I hope your summer has been better than mine.  I'll post again soon with a more cheerful topic.  Now, I'm going to go spend some time with my dogs, because they never threaten me, talk down to me, short-change my kids, or otherwise act in a deceitful or mean way.  Yep, I definitely like dogs better than people today.

Kate

Fun Fact:  I have rewritten the lyrics of Deck the Halls to make it a Back-To-School carol.  I am considering doing this with more songs.  Suggestions are appreciated.




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Milo the Wonder Dog.

1/4/2012

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He's cute!  He's furry!  He leaps toy buildings in a single bound!  Assuming they're reasonably sized toy buildings, of course.  And with a running start he can actually get a good foot up into the air.  He'll never play basketball but really with a face like that, who cares?

He's been our dog for a little over a month and Milo is on a constant adventure filled with cuddles and unexplored rooms.  Actually he's explored all the rooms in the house but he seems to think he might have missed something. 

Milo's ancestral background is an interesting one.  He's 1/2 Shih Tzu, 1/4 Bichon Frise, and 1/4 Toy Poodle.  I can see all three breeds in various aspects of his behavior.  His look is overall one of Shih Tzu with some Poodle influence on his coat.  I often see him resting with just the tip of his tongue out, which I've seen on countless Shih Tzus (though it could belong to other breeds and I just didn't notice).  He can be very delicate with his paws, and seems like he will easily learn some cute tricks, and I attribute those things to the Poodle.  His Bichon Frise heritage comes out once or twice a day when he does what is known as the "Bichon racetrack."  I don't know if all Bichons do this or just the ones who are stuck indoors most of the day during the winter, but it's hilarious.  It's a dead run at top speed through a predetermined circuit of the house.  It's during this performance that we see his aerial skills.  He's been known to jump up on furniture he normally can't reach during this, and I've seen him on the back of our couch once or twice.  It's amazing how fast this little guy can go!  If I knew a cop I might try to borrow a radar gun and clock him.  I've seen terrified people (on TV of course) who can't top Milo's speed.

The best thing about Milo though is not his entertainment value (which is high) or even his super intelligence (this morning he went looking for the kid I was calling to come downstairs, who was presumably still in bed, nothing like a cold nose to wake you up).  Milo's heart is the best part of him.  He is loyal and affectionate and patient.  He loves my daughter even though she tends to use him as a pillow (she's tiny, so she doesn't hurt him at all).  He will calmly approach one of the boys when they're on the floor and see if they want a snuggle.  Our youngest son actually asks for Milo at bedtime and asked for him when we dropped him off at school today.  Milo is always happy to see us, even if we've been gone for 20 minutes, putting kids on school buses.  He is happy and his tail is wagging as soon as he sees his favorite people.  He'll follow us up the stairs even though he can't get back down on his own.  He will growl at strange noises, and bark at new people.  Not sure he knows that he isn't threatening, but there's no question about his devotion.

Milo is part of our family and we love every soft, squiggly, chewy inch of him.

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